The chances of finding your soul mate are not so small if you put the theory of personality types as the basis of your searches.
It is estimated that the planet is home to several million potential ideal partners for each of us. And the chances of finding your soul mate are not so small if you put the theory of personality types as the basis of your searches.
Partner compatibility is a complex set of factors such as life experience, social status, upbringing and personality type. And the main thing for harmonious relations is the coincidence on the last point.
There are 16 sociotypes that form 8 harmonious pairs. For convenience, each type of personality has been assigned the names of outstanding people or literary characters – according to their “corporate” character traits, while acting in the role of, say, “Shtirlitsa” can be both your man and yourself. Determine what type you are – and you will understand what kind of partner you need.
One partner – “Stirlitz”: Nordic character, self-controlled, intellectual and logical, notices all the details, prone to introspection. Likes to play fair, does not accept cunning, appreciates accuracy and order. Estet in everything.
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Another partner is Dostoevsky: a subtle and sensitive owner of a rich spiritual world, knows how to empathize and adapt to the feelings of other people. Unobtrusive, always ready to help, very critical of himself. Fidelity in marriage is unshakable for him.
Relationship: this two compliant types. For both, fidelity is important, no one is looking for entertainment on the side and does not look for another partner for himself, but is immersed in grinding existing family relationships. “Stirlitz” often takes on the role of the breadwinner and “senior” in the house, and the patient and forgiving Dostoevsky brings comfort and is especially good at organizing family leisure, because the world has not only workaholism, but fun and beauty that will save the world.
One partner – “Don Quixote”: selfless idealist. He prefers to do what is interesting, rather than what is useful. Dependent on the opinion of people, often closes in on itself, needs constant emotional recharge.
Another partner – “Dumas”: friendly, caring and tolerant of the weaknesses of others. However, she does not like to share her inner experiences even with loved ones, preferring to solve her problems on her own.
Relations: the dreamer, dreamer and extrovert “Don Quixote” is perfectly balanced by the reserved introvert “Dumas”. And if the former is responsible for the emotional climate in the family, can shake everyone around, come up with a family trip or a new use for pasta, then the homely realist “Dumas” carefully monitors that the family has wealth, comfort and covered rear, and the phrase about “no need to scatter food ”he also says.
One partner – “Robespierre”: a rational person with an analytical mindset, fair to the bone. Unpretentious in everyday life, demanding of himself. In the company he behaves in a closed manner, does not like to obey.
Another partner is “Hugo”: irascible, sensitive and emotional, true to his principles. He is a great connoisseur of art and friendly gatherings, but considers family the main value, loves order and is a conservative.
Relations: only the fiery “Hugo” is capable of melting the age-old ices of the logic of the kind, intelligent, but often lonely “Robespierre” with his love of life. “Hugo” is a man-orchestra that feeds his dual partner with the necessary creative energy, making life around him more comfortable. In turn, receiving from “Robespierre” confidence in the future, which is provided by his intellect, thoroughness and ability to succeed in the chosen business of life.
One partner – “Hamlet”: Cautious and anxious, romantic and dreamy, he can do his job responsibly, but is not a good strategist.
Another partner – “Maxim Gorky”: fighter, innovator and reformer, true to his ideas. A practitioner and a realist who harbors no illusions and is not picky in everyday life. Loves to find causal relationships, question and explore.
Relations: “Maxim Gorky “loves hierarchy, he can just as easily create his own system or fit into someone else’s, and once he fits in, he will just as easily get to the top. However, no matter how well his life is organized, everything is not right if there is no soul in it. “Hamlet” is responsible for light, meaning and fullness. A little crazy, too chaotic and desperately not adapted to life. In such a pair, “Maxim Gorky” becomes more sociable and “human”, and “Hamlet” is calmer and more reliable.
Defender and Wing Pair
One partner – “Zhukov”: purposeful, active and strong-willed. Straightforward and unshakable, indifferent to the opinions of others. He has a heightened sense of self-esteem, determined character, fearlessness, and a craving for emotional people.
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Another partner – “Yesenin”: dreamy and amorous, inclined to forgive people for mistakes, has a good sense of humor. Elegant, longs for everything beautiful, but in people he values not appearance, but intellect and fortitude.
ABOUTrelationship: an existence in which there is no challenge is inconceivable for “Zhukov”, be it another business project or a move to a new country. This monolithic man, who can cope with any difficulties, is born to protect the weak. This is exactly his dual – the vulnerable “Yesenin”, almost unable to exist alone. In turn, “Yesenin” reveals to the partner the secrets of his developed intuition, is able to inspire, advise how to behave with certain people whom he feels extremely delicately. Everything so that Zhukov achieves its goals for the good of both.
A couple of strategists
One partner – “Caesar”: proactive and eager for respect, has a great influence on people, emotional and demanding.
Another partner – “Balzac”: possessor of a vivid imagination and strong intuition, likes to analyze everything and is reputed to be a cynic. Despite the feigned negativity and sadness, he remains sympathetic and kind.
Relations: “Caesar “- always for power, but good power -” the strong is right only if he is kind and moral. ” He may initially gain power, but is rarely able to retain it. Balzac, in turn, will not lift a finger if it is not confident in the success of the enterprise. Calm, prudent and wise “Balzac” delights “Caesar” with its confident adherence to the intended path, whether it is building a career in a controversial area or a tedious detour to the country house, bypassing all traffic jams. “Balzac” goes a long, but sure way, accurately calculating all the risks. And if he decides to link his fate with Caesar, this union will be successful.
One partner – “Jack London”: tireless entrepreneur, does everything quickly, constantly in a hurry. He is a romantic and a traveler, a brave and a dreamer, an optimist and a true lover of life.
Another partner – “Dreiser”: a connoisseur of human souls with delicate taste and good manners. Above all, he values friendship and love, in which he is faithful. Likes order, is very neat, prone to self-sacrifice.
Relationship: Jack London “will find a way out of any situation thanks to its extraordinary approach to solving problems. Life without romance, anxiety and at least some kind of extreme is unthinkable for him. However, it is extremely important for him to know that his risk is important for someone, someone is waiting for him at home while he opens new lands or removes a cat from a tree. For Dreiser, a sense of duty is not just empty words. Having once assumed obligations, he will follow them and not grumble over trifles. The partnership between London and Dreiser is usually based on the principle “we complement each other, so what else is needed?”
One partner – Huxley: artistic and developed, inclined to improvise. Loving, but conservative in matters of marriage and fidelity. He can be content with little, often depends on his mood.
Another partner – “Gaben”: closed and stubborn, unhurried and stingy with emotions. Loves comfort and organization at all levels. He is sensitive to his health, knows how to hide true feelings, is demanding and jealous.
Relations: the softest pair, where the dualization process is quite lengthy. The talented, emotional “Huxley” always wants to embrace the immensity, takes on many projects and leaves them, is disappointed and feels worthless. He needs a person who will appreciate him and be able to withstand all mood swings with dignity. Such is “Gaben”, who loves physical labor, knows how to solve and complete applied problems (he always has all the nails driven into the walls and screwed all the shelves in the bathroom), who in return for his boundless patience and acceptance of a partner receives from a grateful and generous “Huxley” approval of his undertakings and belief in his success in life.
Source : zolotoy.ru